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Originally Posted by Nouvellecosse
Nothing any more fun than making a genuine attempt to communicate with people and having it met with tone policing and unproductive snark for the sake of snark while the actual content is disregarded. Who wouldn't love that.
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Hey, just returning the favour, my friend.
I commented in good faith way back before the 'drama' started, musing whether the volume of people serviced by bike lanes is the best use of taxpayers money vs prioritizing excellent transit first, and then looking at bike lanes, and nobody bothered to actually consider the point and instead came out in attack dog mode.
I suggested a more positive discourse and the responses came back to tell me that it was an unreasonable expectation, so I remarked that I would follow thusly. You can't expect kind respectful discourse once you've openly rejected it.
At this point, I haven't recognized any "genuine attempts to communicate" from you in quite some time, so I'm kinda done with it. The whole discourse from this thread and the cycling community in general has really changed my opinion of the whole thing. I still enjoy bikes and cycling, but I definitely don't consider myself part of the "club", I don't want to be at this point as it seems to be made up of a bunch of nasty, self-righteous people who have disdain for anybody that doesn't walk in lock-step with them. "Oh, but many cyclists also drive cars"... why is that? Because bicycles aren't the be-all end-all form of transportation for all circumstances? Imagine that.
That said, I still support cycling and bicycle infrastructure. I like the concept and think it's important, but don't like all the BS surrounding it.
Jesus, this is not how I want to spend my time, so why don't we all just take a deep breath and let it go. We don't agree. I'm good with that. Full stop. Ignore my comments, or put me on ignore if I get under your skin that much, but no more bullying from you please, I'm not taking part in it any further.