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Originally Posted by Docere
As for integration into Ashkenazi culture, I've actually noticed sort of "Hebrewization" of the diaspora over the past few decades. In Jewish neighborhoods there's fewer delis, more falafels so to speak.
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Makes sense. With the formation of Israel, increasing interfaith marriage rates, Yiddish-speaking older generations dying off, and the Holocaust becoming more and more distant with the passage of time, Ashkenazim will eventually become more about heritage and less cultural identity not unlike Gaelic-speaking Irish Catholics or Irish- and Italian-Americans, of whom even those in Boston and NYC, respectively, are more the former.
The wrinkle though is that Jewish will always have a religious component and history that makes them a unique group, so you’ll still see secular Jews be Bar/Bat-Mitzvahed, say “Shanah Tova” during Rosh Hashanah, light candles on the menorah and spin dreidels during Hanukkah, eat latkes and say “nosh” instead of “food” every now and then, and visit Jerusalem once in their lives just so that they can check it off their bucket list as if having fulfilled a “moral obligation.” This is actually already the case for most Jewish Americans, even those in NYC.
What NYC has though is not just a large Ashkenazi Jewish population but also a dense concentration of them in Manhattan (300-315K or so) that is very tight-knit and considered “white,” while “Jews of color” (darker complexion and/or have non-Israeli Middle Eastern origins, even though Mizrahim constitute the majority of Israeli Jews) a small minority in general. I think there’s a real possibility that Mizrahi Jews might be seen as too “ethnic” for assimilated Ashkenazi Jews with fairer skin. So I don’t necessarily think that you’ll see surnames like “Berman” or “Goldberg” give way to “Nitzani,” “Azulay,” or “Kashani” to a noticeable degree. But that’s not to say that everyone with those last names has a darker complexion or doesn’t have any Ashkenazi roots, either. It’s just to say that “Ashkenazi Jewish American” might as well be its own group, with “New York Ashkenazi Jew” being a subset. When I brought up LA’s large Persian Jewish population to a former colleague originally from NYC (Queens, Gen Xer who lived there in the 70s, 80s, and 90s), he mentioned that he was “used to” (I can’t remember the exact language or context of the conversation) a more Ashkenazi culture.