For NY/NJ/CT, the suburban communities with cachet tend to be in areas with more natural topography. Upstate, CT, North Shore LI, northern Bergen, and Summit/Millburn area are all more verdant due to being more forested as a result of higher elevation. This naturally lends itself to development patterns that generally feature less “dense sprawl” (like southern Nassau County, which was mostly barren plain before settlement) and more in the way of homes on bigger lots and bucolic streets.
So this notion of “balance” is largely driven by external, immutable factors. East/west of Manhattan is somewhat balanced but north/south is lopsided.
With the Bay Area, east/west is lopsided but north/south isn’t. Same goes for LA, although OC is latitudinally east of most of LA County, especially south OC.
Also, countless celebrities, politicians, and billionaires have and continue to own vacation homes (the Obama’s, Charles Koch) in the Coachella Valley. There’s wealth at the most extreme ends of the LA metro — from Ojai to San Clemente to Indian Wells.
https://www.architecturaldigest.com/...k-palm-springs