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10023 Apr 23, 2021 2:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258063)
While I agree that wearing masks outside is pretty damn silly, I still wear one, but not to virtue signal, it's because everyone else in my neighborhood does so, and I'm scared to be the first one to de-mask and risk my neighbors thinking of me as a self-centered jag-off.

You basically just defined virtue signalling.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 2:17 AM

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Originally Posted by dktshb (Post 9257956)
I also hope they become necessary to board an airplane too. Either by the airlines or required by countries for international travel. I wouldn't mind it for domestic flights too.

Permanently? What? Fuck that.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 2:19 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258131)
You basically just defined virtue signalling.

No.

Wearing a mask to show the world how good and virtuous and morally "correct" you are is virtue signaling.

Wearing a mask out of fear of judgement and punishment is not.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 2:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258135)
No.

Wearing a mask to show the world how good and virtuous and morally "correct" you are is virtue signaling.

Wearing a mask out of fear of judgement and punishment is not.

What judgment are you afraid of? That you are not virtuous and morally “correct”.

Ipso facto.

homebucket Apr 23, 2021 2:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258063)
While I agree that wearing masks outside is pretty damn silly, I still wear one, but not to virtue signal, it's because everyone else in my neighborhood does so, and I'm scared to be the first one to de-mask and risk my neighbors thinking of me as a self-centered jag-off.

Hopefully with these new official reports of just how silly outdoor mask wearing is most of the time, we'll see a change up here in Lincoln square. I really think we're at the point now where no one wants to be the first one to jump into the pool out of fear of judgement.


Maybe I need to go into the t-shirt business.

It could say:

I think it's silly to wear this mask outside
but I also don't want you to think I'm a jerk
so here we are


Might be a big seller this summer in chicago.

I've seen most people not wear their masks outside until they're about to pass someone else. Then they'll whip it out and put it on, but I think if you're close with certain neighbors or ones that you're more familiar with, perhaps you can come to an agreement that whenever you run into each other, you can keep your masks in your pockets. Eventually others will start catching on.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 2:39 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258146)
What judgment are you afraid of?

"Did you see the Smiths walking down the street maskless yesterday, all 4 of them?"

"Yeah, I've noticed them a few times now walking around without masks"

"They're definitely not getting invited to little jimmy's birthday party next month."

"Good."


That's a social penalty I'm not willing to incur (especially for the sake of my kids) for being the lone person brave enough to go against the collective psychosis that a mask has to be worn anytime one is outside of the 4 walls of their own home.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 2:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258152)
"Did you see the Smiths walking down the street maskless yesterday, all 4 of them?"

"Yeah, I've noticed them a few times now walking around without masks"

"They're definitely not getting invited to little jimmy's birthday party next month."

"Good."


That's a social penalty I'm not willing to incur (especially for the sake of my kids) for being the lone person brave enough to go against the collective psychosis that a mask has to be worn anytime one is outside of the 4 walls of their own home.

And so you are virtue signalling in order to avoid this outcome.

What other purpose could it (virtue signalling) serve?

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 2:50 AM

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Originally Posted by homebucket (Post 9258147)
I think if you're close with certain neighbors or ones that you're more familiar with, perhaps you can come to an agreement that whenever you run into each other, you can keep your masks in your pockets. Eventually others will start catching on.

Yeah, it's probably time to start putting out feelers to see if I can help jump start the resistance.

If enough people jump into the pool together at the same time, then no one has to be first.

It's why I'm excited to see more official sources come out and say "yeah, wearing a mask outside in the vast majority of situations is pointless". It's gives me something to work with.

craigs Apr 23, 2021 2:53 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258157)
And so you are virtue signalling in order to avoid this outcome.

What other purpose could it (virtue signalling) serve?

Why do you oppose that kind of virtue signaling?

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 2:55 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258157)
And so you are virtue signalling in order to avoid this outcome.

vir·tue sig·nal·ing
noun

the action or practice of publicly expressing opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue.


Doing something strictly out of fear does not fall under my understanding of it.

Social coercion and virtue signaling are not the same thing.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 2:57 AM

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Originally Posted by craigs (Post 9258159)
Why do you oppose that kind of virtue signaling?

Because it is pointless. As Steely says, there is no reason to wear a mask outside. He is only doing it to avoid judgment from others.

If you like this, move to East Asia. I’m tired of wasting my life.

craigs Apr 23, 2021 3:21 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258161)
Because it is pointless. As Steely says, there is no reason to wear a mask outside. He is only doing it to avoid judgment from others.

If you like this, move to East Asia. I’m tired of wasting my life.

How does something supposedly pointless that other people do 'waste your life?'

TWAK Apr 23, 2021 3:48 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258161)
Because it is pointless. As Steely says, there is no reason to wear a mask outside. He is only doing it to avoid judgment from others.

Who runs public health though, the authorities or the individual? Besides, don't make me bring up PASC and the 1/3 neuro thing....absolutely nobody has attempted to counter it. I am very disappoint, do I have to mock in order to get people to talk about it? If not then it stands that all of you can't contest 1/3 of covid patients getting a neurological condition. The forum will have to assume that the people who don't like the lockdown are scared. Fear-porn reversed.
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If you like this, move to East Asia. I’m tired of wasting my life.
Or CA, where the lockdown is so bad that we eat indoors with no masks?

Vlajos Apr 23, 2021 3:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258158)
Yeah, it's probably time to start putting out feelers to see if I can help jump start the resistance.

If enough people jump into the pool together at the same time, then no one has to be first.

It's why I'm excited to see more official sources come out and say "yeah, wearing a mask outside in the vast majority of situations is pointless". It's gives me something to work with.

I rarely wear a mask now when out and about outside. It seems like quite a few people aren't wearing them either. I will just walk out of the way if someone I don't know is getting close.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by TWAK (Post 9258203)
Who runs public health though, the authorities or the individual? Besides, don't make me bring up PASC and the 1/3 neuro thing....absolutely nobody has attempted to counter it. I am very disappoint, do I have to mock in order to get people to talk about it? If not then it stands that all of you can't contest 1/3 of covid patients getting a neurological condition. The forum will have to assume that the people who don't like the lockdown are scared. Fear-porn reversed.

Or CA, where the lockdown is so bad that we eat indoors with no masks?

Didn’t that just start in LA? And you can’t eat with a mask.

The “long-Covid” chatter is way overstated. And the “1/3 of Covid patients” stat is actually 1/3 of hospitalised Covid patients, which of course represent a small minority of cases and are unlikely to include the young. If your blood oxygen drops to the point where you need to be intubated, then yes there is risk of neurological damage. But I would have no need to worry about that because I have no need to worry about becoming so severely ill from Covid.

10023 Apr 23, 2021 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by craigs (Post 9258182)
How does something supposedly pointless that other people do 'waste your life?'

Lockdowns, social distancing and travel restrictions are wasting my life.

glowrock Apr 23, 2021 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258063)
While I agree that wearing masks outside is pretty damn silly, I still wear one, but not to virtue signal, it's because everyone else in my neighborhood does so, and I'm scared to be the first one to de-mask and risk my neighbors thinking of me as a self-centered jag-off.

Hopefully with these new official reports of just how silly outdoor mask wearing is most of the time, we'll see a change up here in Lincoln square. I really think we're at the point now where no one wants to be the first one to jump into the pool out of fear of judgement.


Maybe I need to go into the t-shirt business.

It could say:

I think it's stupid to wear this mask outside
but I also don't want you to think I'm a jerk

so here we are



Might be a big seller this summer in chicago.

I love it! :cheers:

Seriously though, at this point I also think mask-wearing outdoors is pretty silly and useless, with the exception of particularly crowded areas (farmer's markets and other such things, perhaps on crowded city streets). Those who continue to wear masks outdoors with few to no people around them are definitely doing it for their own mental comfort and not out of necessity or even moderate need.

Aaron (Glowrock)

glowrock Apr 23, 2021 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258161)
Because it is pointless. As Steely says, there is no reason to wear a mask outside. He is only doing it to avoid judgment from others.

If you like this, move to East Asia. I’m tired of wasting my life.

And I think I speak for most of us here when I say I'm tired of reading about how you're tired of wasting your life and how everything revolves around you and how your needs and wants are by definition so much more important than the needs and wants of others around you. You really need to seek therapy regarding your arrogance and self-centered behavior, man.

Aaron (Glowrock)

the urban politician Apr 23, 2021 12:57 PM

My biggest problem with everyone wearing masks outside is that I can’t see the faces of the young women walking around :runaway:

glowrock Apr 23, 2021 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258386)
My biggest problem with everyone wearing masks outside is that I can’t see the faces of the young women walking around :runaway:

Fair, but I'd venture at least half of all people wearing masks look better with them than without them!

Aaron (Glowrock)

SIGSEGV Apr 23, 2021 2:30 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258386)
My biggest problem with everyone wearing masks outside is that I can’t see the faces of the young women walking around :runaway:

I suspect reduced catcalls and stares from creeps are part of the reason many women are still wearing masks.

MonkeyRonin Apr 23, 2021 3:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258135)
No.

Wearing a mask to show the world how good and virtuous and morally "correct" you are is virtue signaling.

Wearing a mask out of fear of judgement and punishment is not.


Have masks really become that politicized of an issue in the US that one needs to wear one even where not required just so others don't confuse you for a knuckle-dragging Trump supporter?

(or vice versa, that people in Red states are scared to wear them even where it makes sense?)

iheartthed Apr 23, 2021 3:02 PM

I almost always wear a mask outside because I need to wear one while entering and exiting my apartment building, and I'm usually going to/coming from a place that requires me to wear one. So I'll only have a few minutes with the mask off before I need to put it on again anyway. The major exception to this is when I'm jogging or on my bike, in which case I'll only cover my face when I have to pass within arm length of someone else.

I don't think much of it when people aren't wearing masks outside. Where I live, there is a pretty even mix of people who are and aren't wearing them outdoors, and nobody really cares unless they're coughing or standing too close.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 3:18 PM

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Originally Posted by MonkeyRonin (Post 9258521)
Have masks really become that politicized of an issue in the US that one needs to wear one even where not required just so others don't confuse you for a knuckle-dragging Trump supporter?

(or vice versa, that people in Red states are scared to wear them even where it makes sense?)

No, it has very little to do with politics, at least where I live.

I think most of this issue for me is being too agreeable for my own good sometimes.

By nature, I am NOT a boat rocker.

Hopefully, more sources talking about the pointlessness of outside masking will put a hole in the dam of the collective psychosis.

MonkeyRonin Apr 23, 2021 3:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258538)
No, it has very little to do with politics, at least where I live.


I guess I didn't mean it quite so literally in the partisan political sense, but more in the manner of how everything seemingly gets dragged into the broader culture wars these days.

"Blue team" likes masks, therefore one shows their allegiance to Blue team by wearing a mask at all times, even when not necessary. "Red team" doesn't like masks, therefore one shows their allegiance to Red team by never wearing a mask and making a stink about it when they're forced to. Getting confused as belonging to the other team would be a very Bad Thing.

Basically, the idea that one has to wear a mask outside lest they risk social ostracization from their neighbours sounds very foreign to me. Even amongst compliant, rule-loving Canadians there's just a little more room for nuance.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 3:43 PM

I understood what you meant, but it's not really about blue teams or red teams, at least not where I live.

the urban politician Apr 23, 2021 4:05 PM

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Originally Posted by SIGSEGV (Post 9258485)
I suspect reduced catcalls and stares from creeps are part of the reason many women are still wearing masks.

Nah, attractive women like the attention, we all know this.

And anyhow, who the hell catcalls these days? That's such a 70's thing (whistling at women)

the urban politician Apr 23, 2021 4:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258561)
I understood what you meant, but it's not really about blue teams or red teams, at least not where I live.

Well duh, there are probably like..........

4

Republicans

at most, living in the 20 square block radius of your condo.

:haha:

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 4:12 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258589)
Well duh, there are probably like..........

4

Republicans

at most, living in the 20 square block radius of your condo.

:haha:

that's true, urbanism is like kryptonite to conservatives. :D


hence why discussions about red teams or blue teams doesn't make a whole lot of sense where i live.

people here don't really think in those terms because one of the teams is entirely absent.

SIGSEGV Apr 23, 2021 4:16 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258587)
Nah, attractive women like the attention, we all know this.

And anyhow, who the hell catcalls these days? That's such a 70's thing (whistling at women)

enough people catcall that my wife complained about it regularly pre-pandemic.

twister244 Apr 23, 2021 4:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258538)
No, it has very little to do with politics, at least where I live.

I think most of this issue for me is being too agreeable for my own good sometimes.

By nature, I am NOT a boat rocker.

Hopefully, more sources talking about the pointlessness of outside masking will put a hole in the dam of the collective psychosis.

The Steely I know wouldn't give a rats ass about what people think of him walking down the street.....

If people give you crap, politely ask them to send you some peer reviewed scientific literature on how the virus spreads outdoors under different conditions.

This Steely that I see here though.... Must eat thin crust pizza from Dominoes because he's afraid he will drown in deep dish.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 4:36 PM

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Originally Posted by twister244 (Post 9258635)
The Steely I know wouldn't give a rats ass about what people think of him walking down the street.....

then you don't know me at all.

i'm a textbook "go along to get along" type of person, especially with close-quarters neighbors. rocking the boat is the very antithesis of my entire being.

to my own detriment at times.

JManc Apr 23, 2021 5:32 PM

The older I get, the less I care about what total strangers might think about me.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 5:34 PM

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Originally Posted by JManc (Post 9258734)
The older I get, the less I care about what total strangers might think about me.

i don't put neighbors and total strangers in the same category.

woodrow Apr 23, 2021 5:46 PM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9258132)
Permanently? What? Fuck that.

I think he meant that airlines require proof of vaccination. I would love that.

the urban politician Apr 23, 2021 5:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9258736)
i don't put neighbors and total strangers in the same category.

^ Well, I don't know what's going on in your hood but NOBODY in my neighborhood has worn a mask while walking around outside....probably ever

It was understood that we are far enough apart (and outdoors) that COVID risk is basically zero.

The only time I saw a bunch of mask wearing is this January at a busy sledding hill. Nearly all of the parents and kids were wearing masks because it was so crowded

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 5:57 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258753)
^ Well, I don't know what's going on in your hood but NOBODY in my neighborhood has worn a mask while walking around outside....probably ever

right.

you're way out in the burbs.

different mindset and physical environment out there (and i'm not talking about "political teams" here).

anyway, i just hope people in my neighborhood start wising up to the pointlessness of outdoor masking.

i guess i'm going to have to be the change i wish to see in my world.

the urban politician Apr 23, 2021 6:23 PM

^ Come to think of it, I do see many people wearing masks when they walk around our commercial (and walkable) main street in downtown Libertyville. That is where they are more likely to be in close quarters with other people.

I imagine that that environment is much more akin to yours and much of Chicago's neighborhoods.

But in my actual residential neighborhood where we have sidewalks and a park and people walking around, nobody has ever worn masks. But yes, it's WAY less dense here than where you live

SIGSEGV Apr 23, 2021 6:28 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258802)
^ Come to think of it, I do see many people wearing masks when they walk around our commercial (and walkable) main street in downtown Libertyville. That is where they are more likely to be in close quarters with other people.

I imagine that that environment is much more akin to yours and much of Chicago's neighborhoods.

But in my actual residential neighborhood where we have sidewalks and a park and people walking around, nobody has ever worn masks. But yes, it's WAY less dense here than where you live

yeah, I live in the loop and most people wear masks here. While just walking down the sidewalk is probably safe enough, waiting for crosswalk lights you can easily end up in a crowd.

Steely Dan Apr 23, 2021 6:35 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9258802)
But yes, it's WAY less dense here than where you live

yeah, that probably plays a part in it.

Lincoln Square census tracts tend to be in the 20K - 30K ppsm range.

Libertyville's are more like 1.5K - 3.5K ppsm.

in addition, not only are people packed more tightly here, they're also more likely to be out walking around in the first place compared to libertyville where the car is king.

so when you're out walking around on the side streets of my neighborhood, you simply cross paths with a lot more people than you would in residential libertyville.

no, it's certainly not times square or anything remotely like that, but it's at least an order of magnitude above typical suburbia, so that's all part of that different mindset i was talking about.

10023 Apr 24, 2021 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by woodrow (Post 9258749)
I think he meant that airlines require proof of vaccination. I would love that.

If this proof of vaccination is not integrated with the ID you use to fly, then this would just be another bottleneck at security and I am against it - just as I am against removing shoes and liquids from bags because the inconvenience outweighs the risk.

I think the Biden administration has already ruled out a national CV19 vaccination registry / “vaccine passport”.

JManc Apr 24, 2021 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by 10023 (Post 9259171)
If this proof of vaccination is not integrated with the ID you use to fly, then this would just be another bottleneck at security and I am against it - just as I am against removing shoes and liquids from bags because the inconvenience outweighs the risk.

I think the Biden administration has already ruled out a national CV19 vaccination registry / “vaccine passport”.

Agreed. It would have to be electronically available like Global Entry/ TSA Pre info where the airlines/ TSA/ customs would already have your information before hand. I am going to Alaska in a few days and I have to bring my CDC card in case there's any drama with them wanting me to take a test or quarantine when I get there or get back.

jtown,man Apr 24, 2021 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by dktshb (Post 9257900)
I think it is pretty safe to assume that the person not wanting to wear a mask indoors and making a stink about it is more likely to be the person who is not vaccinated and won't get vaccinated and thinks they're young and/or healthy and invincible to covid. They likely don't care if they happen to infect others and probably claim covid is still a hoax.

Most people who have gotten vaccinated are probably okay with still wearing a mask indoors because it really isn't a big deal. Most understand in this Country dumb asses are going to pretend it is a big deal and their freedoms have been violated at the thought that they still have to wear a mask indoors and will use the "I have been vaccinated" as an excuse not to wear one when they indeed have not been vaccinated. So it probably is good to keep wearing them inside for all until enough people have been vaccinated that it is no longer an issue.

We're probably only talking a couple more months at most... that is unless this out of control situation in India doesn't create a super variant...

Strawman after strawman. Can yall stop doing that?

the urban politician Apr 24, 2021 1:11 PM

My eldest boy, an 11 year old in 6th grade, is going to take the bus and head to school for the first time in over a year this Monday :tup:

the urban politician Apr 25, 2021 3:42 PM

Just watched a movie with my 2 kids at a theatre for the first time in well over a year.

We wore masks but also pulled them down to eat popcorn, snacks, etc.

Theatre was nearly empty. Clearly people are still either very afraid, have not been vaccinated, or both. But a Saturday matinee for a blockbuster like Godzilla vs Kong should’ve been WAY busier.

Having the theatre nearly to ourselves (there were maybe 3 other families there) was pretty nice, though. I wonder how long this will last?

Steely Dan Apr 25, 2021 7:09 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9259444)
My eldest boy, an 11 year old in 6th grade, is going to take the bus and head to school for the first time in over a year this Monday :tup:

First time going to school at all in a year, or the first time taking the bus there in a year?

Either way, congrats! Getting our children back into their normal routines is a huge deal for all of us parents.



I took my kids on the el today for the first time since the pandemic began. We took the brown line down to the zoo. Everyone was still wisely masked on all the trains and buses we rode. Masks are also still required in the zoo. But walking around the park and the Lincoln Park neighborhood before and after, I was paying close attention to people on the paths and sidewalks, and while the vast majority were still walking around masked, I'd guesstimate maybe 20% of the folks I saw were walking around maskless.

So it's starting!

the urban politician Apr 25, 2021 7:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9260321)
First time going to school at all in a year, or the first time taking the bus there in a year?

Both, actually. Btw, none of my kids have ridden a school bus...ever. That changes tomorrow

Quote:

I took my kids on the el today for the first time since the pandemic began. We took the brown line down to the zoo. Everyone was still wisely masked on all the trains and buses we rode. Masks are also still required in the zoo. But walking around the park and the Lincoln Park neighborhood before and after, I was paying close attention to people on the paths and sidewalks, and while the vast majority were still walking around masked, I'd guesstimate maybe 20% of the folks I saw were walking around maskless.

So it's starting!
Very nice

I would say that there needs to be rhyme or reason to outdoor masking, as opposed to “getting a feel for what everybody is going”

In crowded outdoor areas masking makes sense until we have data showing that a significant majority of the public is vaccinated

Steely Dan Apr 25, 2021 7:53 PM

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Originally Posted by the urban politician (Post 9260345)
Both, actually. Btw, none of my kids have ridden a school bus...ever. That changes tomorrow

Very cool. Getting kids back in school is life altering.

Will your son be going to school all 5 days, or are they doing hybrid?

My son goes all 5 days to a private Montessori school, but my daughter is in kindergarten at CPS and she's only physically in school 2 days a week. It's a good start, but she needs to go all 5 days. That won't be happening until the next school year this fall.

the urban politician Apr 25, 2021 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Steely Dan (Post 9260351)
Very cool. Getting kids back in school is life altering.

Will your son be going to school all 5 days, or are they doing hybrid?

My son goes all 5 days to a private Montessori school, but my daughter is in kindergarten at CPS and she's only physically in school 2 days a week. It's a good start, but she needs to go all 5 days. That won't be happening until the next school year this fall.

School for both kids has been fully open 5 days per week

We opted for virtual mostly because of logistic issues with our adjusted work schedule. We actually want our kids back in school

However, my older son is in special ed and is struggling, literally the only kid doing virtual in some of his classes. He was frustrated and told us he really wanted to go to school. After a really bad week we spoke to his school and he will be going in 3 days a week. He will do virtual 2 days a week (again for logistic reasons, no other)

Suffice to say, I am thrilled. I want my kids back in the classroom!

Camelback Apr 26, 2021 12:25 AM

All the local peeps I encounter say this: what Covid? True to the 100.


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