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Originally Posted by Jelly Roll
Smarter, sure but more driven I disagree with. Most of the people I attended college with including me were there because our parents made us go to college. We had no choice in the matter. The networking of the top 10 percent in America should not be overlooked. Growing up in the affluent class ensures job opportunities and connections. Coming from wealth allows for so many advantages in the US it is not surprising the vast majority of poor people stay poor and their child also end up poor. It is a completely different culture and atmosphere between the wealthy and everyone else.
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One always has a choice in the matter.
I, for one, came from a working class income-level family but wanted to go to college and would have gone regardless of my parents' desire (they were supportive of the idea as it turned out). I ended up paying the vast majority of the costs myself, though.
Both of my brothers also went to (and graduated from) college, as much due to their own ambition as to my example. When your oldest brother (me) goes to college and earns more than dad the day after graduation, it becomes a pretty clear motivation to the siblings.
The middle brother even went on to law school and, with the networking you reference, now earns probably about twice what I do, and I earn about 3 to 4 times the median individual income. We're doing pretty well considering my parents together earned just barely the median household income the year before I left for college (and less than that the year I left since my dad lost his job the week before I left).
My lawyer brother and I both went to very good small, private schools, but his is more anchored with wealthy families and more of his college friends came from serious money. And it has made a difference in his career, to some extent. We've both managed to leverage extended family ties to our advantage, advantages that many poor families may not have. But even without those aids, just the education itself and a willingness to see and seize opportunity where it exists has made a big difference in our economic lives.