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Originally Posted by Chicago103
Case in point of what I have just been talking about, people are conditioned to believe this, that urbanity is only about nightlife for young people. Urban walkability is good for people of any age from children to the elderly. Sure the walkable amenities are going to be different depending on one's age and family status but they are still there. For instance kids can walk to a park, to school to their favorite lemonade or ice cream stand, walk to their friends houses. etc. Young single adults as you pointed out can walk to various nightlife amenities. Mature adults can go for walks with their children to the places I mentioned above, walk to a family dinner or night out with their spouse. The elderly can get up early and walk to their favorite neighborhood family restaurant or bakery at the crack of dawn, walk to the pharmacy and just get exercise that keeps their joints in healthy shape that can lead to better quality of life and longer life expectancy, I know plenty of old people who live in the city who do just that. It makes no difference if you are a young single person who parties all night or are a 90 year old who is in bed at dusk, the streets are open 24/7 and they benefit anybody of any age who desires an urban lifestyle for whatever reasons. As far as "more girls at the bar" well I would argue that 21 year old attractive bombshells and 90 year old ethnic grandmothers are equally important to the vitality of city life, to say the city must be either/or instead of both/and is contrary to how urban life is supposed to be.
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Originally Posted by jtown,man
I said that adults like to have fun too, even with kids. However, you probably put getting your kid in a good school over having a bar down the road.
The whole "cities are made for the young-adult" is exactly why Americans move the hell out of cities after they have kids. They move to the suburbs, and its not always the case that they think the burbs are just so great for families. Some do it because they see how bad cities can be for families.
And then people complain that people leave cities after they get married and have kids, while expousing hating kids. lol
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The "cities are made for the young-adult" meme is largely post-modern technosis externality clusterfuck ex-suburbanite propaganda. There are MANY older people who live in our large cities just fine both anecdotally and statistically.
Sure I can name small pockets of the city of Chicago that are geared heavily towards the young and single (i.e. on choice blocks lined with bars/clubs in Wrigleyville/Boystown/Lincoln Park/Wicker Park, etc.) but that is maybe 1% of the city's entire land mass and low single digits of the population and even in the aforementioned neighborhoods you can avoid the most noisy/rowdy aspects by living even just a few blocks away, failing that move a few miles away to the flat/bungalow belt neighborhoods and there are many quiet family friendly areas (by most reasonable standards, maybe not by uber-helicopter suburban soccer mom standards).
The point is that people don't have to move miles and miles away to the suburbs to get away from 95% of the aspects of city life that are anathema to most children/parents/couples/older adults/introverts/non-party animal types and the remaining 5% is just the fact of life day to day human chaos that well rounded adults have to just learn to deal with. For the love of God just find a quieter/more laid back block or neighborhood, it isn't that fucking hard. Hell I am probably one of the most nightclub adverse introverts out there and yet people know I am also one of the most fanatic urbanists around, if that makes peoples heads explode with confusion than so be it.