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Originally Posted by suburbanite
The more and more I think about the more I think kids wont be a part of my life. I enjoy the bachelor lifestyle too much right now and cant see myself changing in the next 4 years, and the idea of kids in my late 30s doesn't do anything for me. All the power to those who make it work, especially in an urban environment.
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I would have said the
EXACT same thing as the bolded above when I was 26.
Kids were a million miles away from me 18 years ago when I was your age. Too young and having too much fun.
But things can, and often do, change. It's one of life's great constants.
Throughout my early/mid 30s, I witnessed friend after friend disappear into the "baby blackhole".
Eventually, I must have subconsciously said to myself
"what the hell, I guess it's my turn".
That said, as to your last point, I did kinda luck-out being from a goldilocks city like Chicago where doing the urban family raising thing comfortably is still attainable for non-millionaires.