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Originally Posted by biguc
I like the Nice Canadian template so much. It dovetails nicely with the points you two are making about accent, when I think about Nice Canadians talking themselves into knots trying to ask immigrants where they're from, without looking like a yokel who thinks everyone non-white is from somewhere else. "I don't want to presume but, I think, maybe, I - not to say that you don't speak perfect English; you do. But do I mayyyybe detect just a hint of an accent?"
The image is satisfying enough, in its own way.
Funnily enough, it actually has helped me understand your perspective. I'm going to do another "nice Canadian" thing and tell you that your experience is valid (empiricism is very English; this is where it leads). But I think there's a better analogue than race to fit your observations: sexuality.
Race is too inflexible to be a serious analogue for religion. It clearly can't change or be suppressed; it's solidly on the 'being' side of a behavior-being description of what a person is. It's also clearly visible in a way that religion isn't, which fouls up my intuitions about how comparable they could be, if not yours.
Sexuality satisfies all of your conditions, while being flexible and invisible. Most of us accept that sexuality, in its broadest strokes is innate and immutable--only the willfully ignorant and cruel still believe in conversion therapy--but we admit flexibility in how people explore, define, and practise their sexuality.
"Nice Canadians" may not go for those practices themselves. They may not accept many of those practices in cis-hets. But they tolerate or embrace them in the name of openness.
Now think of the homophobe's favourite line: "I respect their right to be gay, but do they have to act so gay?"
The correct response is that they can act however they damn well want. It's no skin off anyone's back (unless they're a consenting adult who's into that kind of thing).
Replace gay with Muslim or Jew and you get a picture of the inverse to the Anglo Canadian cultural consensus. One might ask why someone has to wear a hijab to work at the DMV. Strictly speaking, they don't have to. Not in the way they have to wear their skin colour. But they can wear whatever they damn well want. It's no skin off anyone's back (unless they're practising self-flagellation).
In this light, laws designed to protect a supposedly vulnerable secular state don't look so different from Poland's recent anti-"LGBT ideology" (whatever that's supposed to be) laws, designed to protect their supposedly vulnerable Roman Catholic state.
So, if someone wants to mince around the office in a tutu and a turban... I wouldn't do it myself--I'd probably even pillory a cis-het white person for punching down--but I will sit atop my rattan chair, twirl my moustache, and approve. In the name of openness.
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My initial reaction to this was that the trans rights debate has been and is playing out in Quebec (pretty much the case in France as well AFAIK) largely the same as it has in anglosphere countries.
So there is not much of a discernible francophonie différence when it comes to this one.
I'd also add that the gay rights debate played out very slightly differently in Quebec than it did in Anglo-Canada and the USA, in the sense that public opinion was even
more strongly in favour of extending full rights to gays.
But I'd still say there are often cultural differences at play, especially when you refer to stuff as being "no big deal". (Apologies for paraphrasing.)
One thing I've found is that anglophone culture is very laissez-faire when it comes to societal evolution. Society will go where it will go. "Social engineering" is often seen as a negative term by most people.
In France and in Quebec, there is more of a feeling that society is something to be (at least) guided.
In my youth, in an Ontario university, I remember debates over Quebec Bill 101 which was in the news at the time. This was not 1977 when it was enacted, but the early 90s when some court challenges came to a head.
Anyway, there weren't many people in my classes who were supportive of the law (myself included, I was against it at the time), and one of the main arguments against it was that it was social engineering (add sneers for full effect).
Some years later when I moved to Quebec and started engaging with Québécois more, I thought back upon those Ontario university days, and that if Québécois were accused of social engineering, their reaction would probably have been "So????" or maybe "well yeah, that's exactly the point!"
I think that the difference of opinion between Anglo-Canada and Quebec when it comes to stuff like Bill 21 might be rooted in alternative perceptions of how much society can and should be "shaped".
And if I can go back to the trans and gay rights debates, which aren't any more controversial in Quebec or even less, I suppose that most people feel that they're largely inconsequential when it comes to the future shape of society, based on a kind of Cartesian(?) logic that most people aren't going to "decide" (sic) or "convert" to being gay or trans simply because equal rights are being extended to them.
Whereas given the Québécois experience with religion, and the evolution of religion in the world, there is much more evidence that societal outcomes can have a lot of variability.