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Originally Posted by iheartthed
I'm struggling to think of any parent that I know younger than 60 with more than 2 kids, even though the average rate of natural replacement is a little over 2 kids.
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3 kids isn't that uncommon here in chicagoland.
certainly a minority, but anecdotally i have a sister, two cousins, a couple friends, and several neighbors who have 3 kids.
but i only know 1 peer with 4 kids. he's a childhood friend of mine who now lives way the hell out in one of those "vinyl boxes on the cornfield".
but yes, the vast majority of current parents that i know only have two kids, including me and my wife.
we probably would've gone for a 3rd had we had more time, but my wife was already 36 when our 2nd was born, and with two happy and healthy babies, we didn't feel like rolling any more dice.
additionally, we would've needed to buy a bigger car (minivan or 3rd row SUV, blech!)
but what's really moving the needle more than the
"two and through" crowd is the large number of friends i have in their mid to upper 40s who will almost certainly never produce any children.