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Originally Posted by New Brisavoine
If you don't have 1 million euros to buy an apartment in the City of Paris, you'll quickly drop your stance and bow to the inevitable: a 500,000 euros apartment in the 1st ring of suburbs, or a 300,000 euros one in the 2nd ring of suburbs.
My cousin the engineer always makes fun of his colleagues who pay astronomical sums of money to live in cramped apartments in the city center, when he lives in a large and comfortable house in the suburbs. He says the only thing that matters to them is having the name "Paris" at the end of their postal address, which is ridiculous. Living in the suburbs, he can access all the amenities of central Paris by car (like opera, concerts, etc), without having to ruin himself and live in a small cramped apartment.
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Yes, this is the philosophy of most American suburbanites. I wouldn't think it would have currency here. And no, he can't access all the amenities of the city by car. Not can anyone in Weehawken, NJ or some far flung part of London.
Can he wake up in the morning and walk around the corner to one of the city's best bakeries? Can he browse the shops while he runs mundane errands? Does he see and experience the sights and sounds while he goes through his daily routine?
No. He lives in the suburbs, not in Paris, and has a suburban experience. It's not different in Paris than anywhere else, and the desire to live in the city is not about prestige, it's about wanting to actually live in the city, no matter what your big brother says.
Your brother's priorities are clearly dictated by his children, but neither he nor you should pretend that he isn't making a significant trade off. Personally, I would never have children if it meant not being able to live where I wanted to live. But then I don't like kids.
And most importantly... HOW ARE YOU NOT SEEING THAT THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT THE WSJ WAS TALKING ABOUT?
Living in the suburbs is NOT like living in the city, but people have to move to the suburbs because they can't AFFORD to live in the city with kids.