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Originally Posted by Steely Dan
our 6 flat has a small backyard (it's really more of a patio with a tiny little patch of grass in the corner) between the building and the garage that is shared by all residents. in the warmer months it's a great social space for all of the neighbors in the buildings to congregate and grill and eat and drink together.
i grew up in a bungalow in the burbs with a decent backyard and a large deck. during the warmer months my family ate dinner out on the deck nearly every night unless it was raining. we also had cool neighbors on our block and 5 houses in a row all agreed to rip down their backyard fences so us kids had almost a small mini park in the back to run around and play in.
i don't know why anyone wouldn't want to be outside when the weather allows.
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it's a strange paradox. people always seem to have empty, blank, souless looking backyards in newer subdivisions built in the 90s/00s with massive backyards. people in pre-war suburbs and the city seem to inhabit outdoor space more. when was the last time you saw someone sitting on a front porch in a neighborhood like this?
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Originally Posted by the urban politician
^ I have the typical large suburban backyard that I'm sure most forumers here would hate. I have a large deck, BBQ grill, etc.
But even in the warmer months it is only used intermittently. The kids run around, I and sometimes visitors relax with some beverages while swatting mosquitos off of our arms.
Late at night I may enjoy a drink on the deck while staring at the stars.
While this sounds all quaint and nice, in totality it is used only 5% of the time. Is this worth the land I'm wasting? One can definitely argue NO.
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insects in the suburbs are - anecdotally - worse, i think.
people in urban neighborhoods like to get out a bit, walk around on the sidewalk and chat with neighbors with a drink in hand in the summer. hang out. inner pre-war suburbs are very good at this, too. newer suburbs look like vacuum-sealed hell to me. i'm just thankful that i live in a region with urbanish suburban options IF I HAD TO.