Echoing others, as an infant and toddler my parents and I lived in an apartment, then my parents bought a house(then moved and did it over again) and that's the environment I mostly grew up before moving out as a young adult and living in a sequence of various apartments, all of which have been suburban in character. As for wishing I grew up in a city, well sure, that's one reason why I ended up on SSP starting as a teenager. I was in high school when I registered for this forum. Realistically though, I know that precious few places in the US really cater to that lifestyle for all the reasons others have mentioned, like school quality, crime, etc.
FWIW, most of my childhood and teen years my family moved around and lived in smaller towns(population 15,000 and 25,000 respectively) and then a big college town(200,000). The neighborhood and type of houses were suburban in appearance, but these places also weren't culturally speaking like living in a metropolitan area sprawl either.
All I can say is that I kind of appreciate detached houses with yards over living in some kind of urban building.
But at the same time I have a distaste for metro area sprawlburbs, particularly the ones that seem like a consumable good. My cousins lived in a place like that and they were kind of snooty, everything was a competition growing up.
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grew up in the burbs, but it was a pretty ideal setup. Nice yard, plenty of space to roam around, woods with a creek to explore, but could walk or bike to the neighborhood rec center, pool, some restaurants and shops, library, etc. That, combined with the fact that I always had a bunch of neighborhood friend led to me never finding the suburbs stifling or boring.
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I guess it depends on where you live, but around here kids growing up in suburbs that aren't the more expensive master planned community variety don't get do to those things. Any "woods" or "creeks" are going to be private property if they even exist after being clear cut and contoured away, and any pools are going to be restricted to use by HOA members and that may not cover all phases or sections of the development. Pretty sure nowadays kids just play Fortnite instead.
This gets to why I am glad I grew up in a smaller town. For example, my parents would drive us to the municipal pool located in the city park, and I would see other kids I knew from school there, even if it was probably 5 or 6 miles away. And the school I went to had that super stereotypical small town Texas thing going for it, football was a big deal, etc, and actually it was a lot of fun to have been part of that culture.