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Originally Posted by JManc
People change as they get older and I am not making a blanket statement but speaking from my own experience at almost 51, I don't partake in the amenities of living in a big city nearly as much as I did when I was in my 20's and 30's and I can see why some want a slower change of pace. Pretty much all my friends my age and above are the same and spend more time at home rather than exploring new things to do in town.
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Yes people do change, as much as I love living in the 2nd biggest city in the USA, at my age I don’t partake in the amenities living here as my younger days. There are weekends where I don’t leave our condo now. You just don’t have the same energy, but with a young son I force myself to get out and do things, such as going to the park, go swimming, the beach, etc. I think without him I would probably just be lazy.
When I was younger I couldn’t stand being in the house, but now it doesn’t bother me much. It also is a bit more stressful dealing with big city issues as traffic and crowds. When I was a younger person (just turned 60 on May 1) I seem to thrive in crowded places and traffic didn’t even fazed me. The thought of even going to a graduation party this weekend some 60 miles from me in LA traffic is not something I’m looking forward to, I’m seriously looking at taking the train there.
I wouldn’t want to ever live somewhere remotely, but I could easily live in a smaller metropolitan area, or further out in metro Los Angeles away from the busy and noise of everyday life. For many years I was cool with condo living but now I would rather live in a house, not a Mc Machon but something easy to maintain and no more stairs. This is from someone who’s quite healthy and decent shape compared to most people my age.