1. Stop using peoples real names on an internet message forum, its creepy as fuck.
2. Downtown Mesa is a perfectly safe place, see here:
In the past year there were only THREE violent crimes in the Downtown Mesa area, two 'family fights' and one assault. Its hardly the hot bed of hooliganism you proport it to be.
I may be biased to Downtown Mesa, but its because Im biased to ALL downtowns and all urban places. Like everyone on this forum you'd think would be. To say the eternally empty Mesa Riverview is more urban than Downtown Mesa can literally only be described as a statement made from gross ignorance. For you to be promoting a suburban outdoor mall over a real, authentic, walkable downtown place on this forum of all places is just bizarre.
I don't know when you're going to Downtown Mesa, but when I'm there, its not dead. I have lunch there about once a month and I always see an active street scene with people of all ages and ethnicities. Is a night life hot spot? No, but thats not really the sole definition of a good downtown or urban space. If Downtown Mesa can continue to grow as a Downtown for families, that'll be a terrific thing.
Lets put it this way, of the Phoenix are suburbs, please rank their Downtowns, I'd go:
1. Scottsdale
2. Tempe
3. Mesa/Glendale (tie)
4. Chandler
5. Gilbert
6. Carefree
7. Cave Creek
8. Litchfield Park
9. Buckeye
10. Peoria
11. Guadalupe
So really Mesa seems to be doing well for itself amongst its Valley peers.
EDIT: Further, lets look at the Walk Scores of each area.
Mesa Riverview at the intersection of Dobson and Bass Pro Drive (where you can't actually live, but lets imagine you could) scores a 58, "somewhat walkable." Downtown Mesa on the other hand at E Main & Center (where there's actually residences nearby) scores a much higher 80, "very walkable." Its clear which is a better urban place.