What a refreshing thread!
I had my kids when I was 38 and 40 (they're now 6 and 3). I tell younger guys that think they want kids to have them when they're younger and have energy.
That being said, yes I'm out of "the pit" of infant-hood now and the joy of watching them grow and learn is unmatched by anything I've ever experienced.
I love the feeling of instant camaraderie with other dads just because we have kids. It's so easy to laugh with them about how over-the-top parenting can be. I love asking older dads for advice - they're always so encouraging and happy to share their
experiences war stories. My kids have definitely brought out the best and worst in me.
My favourite things to ask new dads is "Have you brushed your teeth this week?" Always gets a good laugh.
